Dating issues

Date: 29 Nov 2009 Comments: 9 so far

teen dating One of the biggest highlight during teenage years that mark your change in being a kiddo into an adult is “Dating”. Yes it is, don’t try deny it. Every teenage have issues like:

SHYNESS – How to talk to a girl? or vice versa.
some are just so stupid and don’t know how to start a conversation with a girl. The worst thing you can do is freeze up and say nothing.

Actually there is no specific things to say to girls. you just have to relax and speak up. One way is to become a good listener and figure out some questions to ask her about, her favorites, her likes, dislikes and what interest her.

NERVOUSNESS – Should I talk? or just move on?
there are some instances we reach to the point of confusion. So many questions holding us back from doing things, like “should i ask directly, or just move on?”

If your going to ask me. I would probably recommend ask directly. reality check? If you move on, sure enough you will never get over it. Well maybe after how many days, weeks, months and worst? F-O-R-E-V-E-R. If you ask directly, you will have to take a risk of rejection. But at least you will know for sure, and even thought it will be over. you won’t have second guess why you didn’t ask or what he/she might said, and finally, you can be proud of yourself for facing a fear and taking a risk.

INCOMPETENCE – How do I start a relationship?
some of us don’t know how to start and were to start. I bet you can relate with this? There are lots of worries going to your minds, so many questions.

set your minds that in every relationship is filled with ups and downs. In order to keep your relationship healthy and happy, bare in mind that you have to understand each other or if you feel something seems not right why not “TALK” it over. However if your relationship needs some fine tuning. There are ways to create or re-create the relationship.
ask for what you want
be honest
learn about persuasion
get to know each other
try something new
remembering the good
forget the advice of others

On the other hand if it doesn’t work. You need to “COOL OFF” and put off the flames, pause and take a little break. cooling off might end up in 2 ways:
getting back together with or without talking
breaking up together.

9 Responses to “Dating issues”

safiena
November 29th, 2009 at 2:04 PM

what an interesting post you have here sweetie.. reminds me of our first date(now he’s my hubby), i am the one who started the conversation *lol* since that i am a quite talkative person.He proposed me through text messaging!To make it clear i asked him directly face to face and now we are married.Sounds funny as my hubby is very shy =)!
ann
November 29th, 2009 at 2:26 PM

@safiena: wow. i know your happy with him.
Toni
November 29th, 2009 at 4:48 PM

Thank you naman sa info sis. :))
It’ll really help lalo na for teens like me.
Although hindi pa naman ako into dating.
Pero kung sakali, I’ll follow these advices. =)
ann
November 29th, 2009 at 4:52 PM

@Toni: tnx sis. bata kpa maxado para sa dating sis. hehe
Rose
November 29th, 2009 at 9:44 PM

nice and interesting post sis. ang ganda ng message nito ^_~. ang galing mo naman. halos tama lahat ng sinabi dito lalo na doon sa bandang ibaba korek na korek ka doon…
ann
November 29th, 2009 at 10:14 PM

@Rose: tnx. kasi naman pinag daanan ko na
Cher
November 30th, 2009 at 1:40 PM

ooohhh this is so coooool! hahaha! dating stuffs. sure people would like to visit yer site
sheidz
November 30th, 2009 at 7:07 PM

Thanks for all these:) But uhm, I just have to say that some things are definitely easier said than done. ;)
ac
December 1st, 2009 at 7:02 PM

Why is it that boys are the one’s to court girls? Is it possible if girls will be the one courting girls? lol.